Don’t be Afraid to be Controversial

Hardball with Chris Matthews - controversyToo many people are afraid to be controversial these days.  I know “the customer is always right.”  Supposedly.

I love controversy though.  Bottom line – if some people don’t hate you, there aren’t many that love you.

It’s true, business owners.  If you’re not pushing people towards the edge, then they’re right in the middle.  They don’t hate you, but they also don’t love you.  They’re not talking about you and they’ll easily forget about you.

TV Shows are Controversial

Take a clue from TV shows.  Is there a political show you watch that’s not controversial?  Of course not.  No one would watch.

Derek did this great video a few months ago that brought a lot of controversy.  I doubt Dave Ramsey would disagree with anything he said, but there was still controversy there.

 

I titled a podcast My Business is a Scam because someone actually thought it was.  But I’ve won that person over (after a funny show) and they still listen.

Turn Controversy into Positive Attention

When you begin to view controversy as a positive occurrence in your business, you can use it as an opportunity to develop relationships that otherwise wouldn’t exist.  I actually disliked some of my now-best friends when I first met them.  If they were in the middle, they’d be like everyone else; someone I know, but someone I don’t interact with often.

How have you used controversy?

  • careerpirate

    Nice. Both of you. I did a quick market search on the local career coaches and found most of them are carbon copies. I don't blame them for being bland. What I noticed is they were trying to toe the line and not offend anybody and in the process not standing out. Your call to controversy is what they need.. it is what I need. Thanks for the reminder.

  • http://coachradio.tv/ Justin Lukasavige

    I was just talking about that with Dan Williams as we were coaching this morning. I was so excited because he's not like everyone else. He found his niche and doesn't even call it coaching. It would turn off his market. They want someone real, not someone out of a box.

  • http://bluecollarcoaching.net James Dibben

    I'm still trying to find my controversial edge. I'm getting some ideas, though.

  • http://coachradio.tv/ Justin Lukasavige

    We'll be there on August 11th, James.

  • http://www.christopherbrowning.com Christopher Browning

    Oh Geez.. I struggle with that.. “So you are a career coach then?”. I cringe when I hear that. It is similar to saying a professional who sells only multi-million dollar homes.. “So you are a realtor ?” Yes… but no… Dan is a good man.. and he looks like Superman that has been stylized by California. I'm glad you are working with him.